Thursday, December 21, 2006

how people perceive failure???

Different people have different perception. why???
It is because of culture, lifestyle, upbringing, education, instinct, grooming over the year, situation faced over the year. Depending on the above factors, the way people react to failure is different. With the little experience I have, I would like to categorize people in 5 different types with respect to this issue.
1. Happy go lucky
2. Tension+
3. pretending happy+
4. pretending happy -
5. depressed
6. joker

happy go lucky: these r the people who r less bothered about result, they have carefree attitude, are not very serious about the particular issue.

tension+: these r people who are very serious abt the result, take a lot of pain to succeed and try their best to overcome the failure but always regret the particular failure.

pretending happy+: these people don’t let the sadness encroach their face or behavior but internally they r very strong and they keep on doing hard work and try to change the wind in their supporting direction.

pretending happy-: these people try to hide their sadness in happy face, but actually their heart is choked and they had lost the courage to fight back.

depressed: these r those people who had lost their courage and their failure can be seen on their face.

joker: these r the most complicated lot. it is very hard to predict what going inside them but to the outside world they r crowd puller, they do very funny things enjoyed by all.

why do these people react so differently to failure, this is because of the perception.

for some the failure is not a obstacle but a stepping stone, they learn from it and fights back.

for some end is not important but the journey is and they don’t give a damn to failure and keep on doing their work.

for some the work itself is not important and they don’t give damn to the work itself.

for some people every thing is so important or they r passionate about everything they do and for them it is very hard to digest failure.

for some people who had always live in a protected environment, to face failure is very hard and their reaction is uncivilized instinct. It can be a serious fight to win or surrender to the situation.

in this way all the factors discussed initially plays a important role in shaping the perception and as well as shaping the response.

at last i wud like to end the discussion with the statement "in ur good or bad time, keep reciting god's name, because whether god exist or not, his name gives u strength to fight the failures." And never leave ur dear ones who failed because that’s the time when they need u the most and remember u may be at the other end someday and u may feel the same need.

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