is she a gud gal?????

i remember once i asked one experienced interviewer, what do u look in a prospect candidate? to which he replied " what will u look in a gal for taking a marriage decision?" too that my obvious reply was i ll not look for one particular aspect, rather its overall personality i.e tangible and intangible aspect( to be discussed later) that is important to me. So he said similarly we too look for overall personality.

the discussion at that time ended there, but today when one of my friend asked me" is she a gud gal?". then these old thought recaptured my mind and i started thinking what parameters i ll use to evaluate a gal. whatever decision i am going to make is going to hav 2 consequences - it is going to play a important role in shaping up my friends life and second i too am going to understand myself, my choices in a better manner.

let us instead of starting the process of rating with listing the parameters and then rating her on those parameters, i would like to tell u parameters and rating simultaneously.

unlike those honest person who says that we shud look at the gals heart, i ll definetly first look for the gals look(before taht let me make it clear this what i called tangible) not because feelings doen't bother me but looks though not require sufficiency condition but definetly plays a necessary role. definetly at this stage its going to be a elimination round only. ...now moving on to that gal..i wud say she definetly cleaars this elimination round. though she was somewhat healthy at the time i saw her first but now she has reduced and looks hot.

coming on to second phase of the same round, i feel that she is gud looking and has the glow on the face that is capable of attracting attention....i hav to move to next stage or else i am going to fall in love...overall atleast 3 star

(now most of the discussion deals with intangible parameters)

the second round of evaluation wheer in u see the gals heart, i would say that though i had never been so close to that gal but then also i feel that she is gud at heart, is a gal with high integrity.cant say more on this. sorry my friend. ****rating

"basic behaviour of the person", the next logical parameter to evaluate her on...i think she is hard working, knows how to carry herself an dmore tahn that is able to carry that gud image in most of the people i had talked to. so she scores here close to four stars.

now comes the most difficult part, to evaluate gal not on a parameter but to check whether the she is "akru" or not. u must bhi thinking why suddenly such an irrelevant talk!!! this need to be discusssed on special mention by my friend as he thoughts that she is "akru". now particularly i thnk that when u start thnkng abt gal in this manner ur expectations and faer of rejection starts increasing and therefore u start feeling that gal is trying to project herself superior but i thnk that ur thoughts r always right. specially in this case i feel that my friend is wrong i.e. she is not "akru". also as even though after my persistence efforts to know about any such significant incidence my friend refused to tell me anything so i had to believe that this "akru" is a wrong belief.

after this analysis i think the gal is gud investment oppurtunity for long term and my friend shud straight away go and propose her. And if my dear friend u still feel think otherwise plz let me know, as i ll definetly like to try it out as know i am feeling that the gal is really gud.